Remember this song? Click here to listen to the Johnny Mercer & the Pied Pipers’ hit from 1945 (chorus starts at 56 seconds).
You've got to accentuate the positive
Eliminate the negative
Latch on to the affirmative
Don't mess with Mister In-Between
Easier said (and sung) than done! Now, read this post from Tiny Buddha for some words of wisdom.